I’m always baffled @ how much preparation it takes me to get my kids straight if we’re going anywhere without them. It’s a lot of work leaving them in someone else’s care, especially during evening hours. My husband has it easy – all he has to do is show up and drive.
In the meantime, I’m:
- Planning my outfits
- Packing pajamas or clothes
- Preparing meals & snacks
- Writing To Do/To Pack lists
- Calculating departure time
- Calculating how much time we have to get ready
- Reinforcing rules
- And just overall being strategic so that we’re either a.) on time or b.) don’t forget anything
Unless the kids are staying @ home w/ a sitter, sometimes I feel it’s less work to just take them.
Maybe that’s why we don’t get out much!
Same here. I think it’s more that I’m too exhausted! However, I do love taking day trips with my kids and we all have a great time, especially when we are prepared!