Traveling with Kids
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Bathing your baby while away from home
Confessions of a Mysophobe
It’s always seemed a little stressful for me to think about bath time for my baby while we traveled. He’s still in the ducky tub phase and I can’t fathom putting my child down in a hotel bathtub for his evening ritual. No matter how posh or seemingly clean a hotel room appears, I never take a bath in its facilities. I even make my husband and son wear flip flops when they take showers to protect their feet. I can’t even blame my germaphobia on the numerous hotel exposes I’ve watched on hidden “surprises” in hotel rooms. I just see my obsession as safe practices in health and cleanliness.
In the past, my husband and I tag teamed showering with the baby. One person would hold and wash him in the shower while the other waited outside for the pass like a quarterback after the snap. As my son has gotten bigger, maneuverability has become more of a challenge but he still isn’t ready for flip flop-laden showers. The solution was simple - invest in an extra inflatable tub for travel. They are inexpensive, lightweight, easy to clean, and familiar to him. I can always keep it deflated and stored in his suitcase since we already have one at home and inflate it once we reach our destination. I have no qualms about placing it in the hotel’s tub (though I may spray the tub down with disinfectant first) and resuming to our normal business. Granted, the bath is an abbreviated version of our normal tubby time - devoid of songs and play. However, it gets the job done, relieving us of both back strain and an argument due to my slight case of OCD and my husband’s frustration with me. Poor guy.
My hang-ups as a mom are always backed by good intentions. I just want my boys to be as safe and comfortable as possible so that they can enjoy all aspects of the travel experience.
Day Trips
I don’t know about anyone else, but there’s a time for jumping in the deep end of the pool and a time for taking baby steps. In my quest to stay young-looking as long as possible, I try not to provoke the dormant gray hair follicles just waiting to pop up from an onslaught of stress. So when it comes to traveling with small children, I prefer to tip toe my way from the shallow end of the pool to the place where I can tread water and then break out into a full backstroke. Enjoyable stress-free travel with small children is all about the p’s: practice, planning, preparation, and patience.
Before I take my two young sons, 5 year old AC and 1 year old AJ on their first world tour, I will be mastering the day trip with them. I want my boys to get accustomed to being on the go. And I’d like to fine tune a rhythm for traveling with them. Day trips are quick and easy and serve as practice for the longer trips waiting in the wings. They require a certain level of planning all unto themselves. In essence they are easier to plan for than overnight trips but you still have to plan accordingly because you’re trying to pack as much fun as you can in a shorter time span.
One of the easiest ways to plan for a day trip is to jump on the computer and do all of the research several days before so that you can psyche yourself up for the adventure ahead. One of my favorite sites is tripadvisor.com because I am a slave to opinions and reviews. Shoot, most of my home shopping decisions are done by reviews from everyday folk and that’s exactly what you get on Trip Advisor. Some of the reviews are straight comedy but sometimes you get a perspective on a hotel or a restaurant or an attraction that you would have never expected. A couple of years ago, my husband and I decided to take an impromptu trip to Ft. Lauderdale with AC and I planned the whole trip based off of reviews from Trip Advisor. Since I was pregnant at the time, of course my main focus was the best places to eat in the Ft. Lauderdale area but my husband was shocked that our schedule was packed and that I had done so much planning in so little time. I find the site to be an invaluable gem for both day and overnight trips.
I’ve also found that preparing for my day trip with the kiddies goes so much smoother when I write down exactly what it is I need to do in order to get out the house and on the road as quickly as possible. My life as a mother is ruled by To Do Lists. When we’re going on a trip I write up at least 3 different lists: a general list, a what-to-pack list, and a food list. With everything on my mind, I’m bound to forget something. If I don’t write things down, forget about it, I either a.) Never make it out of the house on time or b.) End up either turning the car around our going back and forth from the car to the house at least five times because I forgot something. I make my To Do List either the night before or right after I’ve showered and gotten dressed for the day. I make the children’s breakfast quickly, treading that fine line between ensuring that they are full enough to make it a few hours before asking for a snack and being overly full such that we can’t make it out of the house due to bathroom visits. Once they’re fed breakfast, I start checking off my line items on the To Do List. It makes me feel accomplished when I do so. Here’s an example of one of my general day trip To Do Lists:
- Wash up and Get Dressed
- Make Breakfast
- Pack Snacks (don’t forget mommy’s too)
- Take GPS
- Pack extra change of clothes
Simple. Then, I make a list for the snacks that I plan to take so that I don’t forget to put something in the cooler for myself. We moms always forget about our needs but if we don’t take care of the ship’s captain, guess what? It’s bound to sink.
Last but not least, I down about three 12-ounce glasses of patience. Did I mention I have two young boys? Oh yeah, I said that already. Okay, so I drink one glass after I’ve finished my To Do List, take a couple of sips of my second glass in the car and then finish it off once we reach our location, and finally drink the third glass at the end of our day when everyone is tired and we’re heading back home. Those three glasses make the day more enjoyable for everyone involved and keeps me excited about continued travel with my kids.
